{"id":138,"date":"2014-01-05T18:14:47","date_gmt":"2014-01-05T23:14:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/?p=138"},"modified":"2014-01-05T18:14:47","modified_gmt":"2014-01-05T23:14:47","slug":"let-go-of-fantasies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/?p=138","title":{"rendered":"Let Go of Fantasies"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Have you noticed how often life doesn\u2019t go your way?<br \/>\nAnd how often do you wish your life or the people around you were different?<br \/>\nIn your head, you have ideas about how life should be, how people should be, and even how you should be. Keep in mind that the life you have is the reality and the life you want is just fantasy.<br \/>\nAs challenging as life and people are at times, resistance to what is makes the situation more frustrating than it needs to be. You&#8217;re not in control of these things and it&#8217;s unrealistic to expect life and people to conform to your narrative. It&#8217;s like swimming upstream.<br \/>\nLetting go of what\u2019s in your head means accepting reality. Try letting go of how you think life should be, and accept what is. Try taking the people in your head out, and accepting the people right in front of you. It actually will make your life easier since you\u2019ll be swimming with the current.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you noticed how often life doesn\u2019t go your way? And how often do you wish your life or the people around you were different? In your head, you have ideas about how life should be, how people should be, &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/?p=138\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-138","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=138"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":140,"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/138\/revisions\/140"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=138"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=138"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.kimcomerford.info\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=138"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}